I think that I am going to try to buy some adult toys to get my wife to open up more in the bedroom. She has always been a bit of prude, but I did not expect that to last after she got married. However, she has yet to open up much. It took a long time before she was even willing to have sex with the lights on, which is just strange to me. She also wouldn’t have sex in the shower for a long time, so it was a big adjustment to me, because I have been used to being with more kinky girls in the past, before I married her.
Of course, I married her because I am deeply in love with her, and not because I wanted to do naughty stuff in the bedroom. However, doing naughty stuff in the bedroom would be a big bonus, and it would make me a lot happier. I guess I have always been pretty into different things when it comes to bedroom activities. So I would like it if my wife had the same sort of interests.
I really would like it she were to be more adventurous. But at the same time, I do not want to force this on her in any way, or do anything to make her feel uncomfortable. That is the last thing that I want to do, really. So instead, I am going to try to have an open conversation with her, and see where that leads. I am going to go ahead and buy some sex toys though, because that might help with the discussion. I am not going to get them to pressure her, but jus tto help show her the options that are out there when it comes to the bedroom.